There is no try
Ok, so "try" is actually a pretty useful concept; there's a reason we have a very short word for it in the English language. Nevertheless, I »
Stop trying to try and try
Imagine a graduate student of mathematics as they interact with a professor, attempting to understand something in the professor's area of expertise. They're working hard to »
Dark, Not Colorless
The last arc of posts has been about how to handle a dour universe. Become unable to despair [https://mindingourway.com/being-unable-to-despair/], learn to see the darkness »
The best you can
In fiction, protagonists narrow their focus until the difference between success and failure on their specific task seems like the difference between victory and defeat. Batman attempts to solve the »
Transmute guilt into resolve
A friend of mine came to me and said that he cares about his immediate friends, and he cares about humanity in the abstract, but he has trouble caring for »
Come to your terms
Once, a friend of mine decided to make a drastic career change by teaching themselves a bunch of new skills from scratch, (with occasional assistance from me). They ran into »
Have no excuses
> Except in a very few [tennis] matches, usually with world-class performers, there is a point in every match (and in some cases it's right at the »
Simply locate yourself
Imagine I offer you the following bet: I'll roll a fair ten-sided die. If it comes up 1-9, you win a million dollars. If it comes »